Looks like I have a lot of tough decisions to make... and I need to get my mind and emotions in the right frame... It will take a lot of praying that's for sure and seeking out God. Truth be told I'm a broken man, I'm a mess, and the pain of all this is more than I can bear... Some people say to take things day by day, but I have been doing good to take it hour by hour.
That is why God is there.
I would go to your church and see if they have any men's groups. Our church has something called a Stephen Ministry, which is fellow lay people acting as sounding boards and offering encouragement. You might see if your church, or one in your area, has such a ministry.
Originally Posted By: 2overcome
It hasn't even been a full week since she dropped the bomb on me. And truthfully I know what's going on, but I don't think it's fully set in yet... No one said this would be easy, and I know I got a long road ahead of me - 1,000 miles and I've only moved an inch
Only a week? Holy crap, you are in prime DB'ing time!
The faster you can turn yourself around, the easier it may be to recover ground.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
