I'm taking a few days to consider if I am going to file for a legal separation, divorce, or try and figure out a way to give things one last, last chance. W has been lying to me and MC about having ended contact with OM and doesn't know that I know.
How do I get full transparency without being told that I'm being over-controlling, drowning, pushing, etc? How do I actually get transparency when I'm not living with W? Do I need to move back in to get it?