Ali,

I'll echo the others in saying that BF sounds like a good man w/a pure heart. He is broken and it will take time for his sadness to heal.

I'm so glad to hear your R is much improved over where it was during the past 9 years. That is an example of DBing working in the correct way.

Not only are you different for the better, but he is too.

RTL

M:38; D: 6
Divorce Final: 10/6/08