Originally Posted By: cutterbug
Originally Posted By: 2overcome
It seems that way unfortunately... this part is not as easy because of our 5 year old daughter. We have not told her what is going on. It will tear her world apart once she finds out. We have both been good parents to her, and I can say that my wife has been an excellent mother to her, no complaints in that department. With respect to that yes, with what my wife is choosing she is being selfish. Should my daughter suffer for this - No... Forcing my wife out of the house will likely hurt my daughter and that's where I am at. It's not for me but for my daughter...


Not any more. She is currently no longer a good mother. Your daughter will suffer if you allow this to carry on. Time to step up for yourself and your daughter. Some short term pain.

Not only will you be setting ground rules for now. But, if you two work this out you have boundaries in place and you know how to enforce them.

Keep the path your going. What happens. You break down. She will come at you hard because you have let her. She has no respect for your marriage , family and you.

Trust me this is going to get very difficult. And 2 to 5 weeks from now you will have had enough of the mental abuse. You will stand up and kick her out. Or you will put your tail between your legs and leave.

Why not use this time to show her what life will be like without a loving 5 year old daughter and 2overcome.



Cutter are you filling in for puppy while he's away?

Excellent advice bro!