It seems that way unfortunately... this part is not as easy because of our 5 year old daughter. We have not told her what is going on. It will tear her world apart once she finds out. We have both been good parents to her, and I can say that my wife has been an excellent mother to her, no complaints in that department. With respect to that yes, with what my wife is choosing she is being selfish. Should my daughter suffer for this - No... Forcing my wife out of the house will likely hurt my daughter and that's where I am at. It's not for me but for my daughter...
I think you answered your own question if you read it.
Your wife also knows you have a daughter, also knows how this will affect her and is still going through with pursuing other men. So to answer your question, your daughter shouldn't suffer but you're not going to be able shield her from what's happening, she will find out from you or your wife that you guys aren't going to be together anymore.
