Save my marriage to w she is moving on

[ugetvince]

I have to got turn in paperwork today to respond to w legal seperation paperwork. Im wondering should i just respond with divorce or continue with legal sep? Were im at mentally I just want to throw in the towel and file for D. Im not making any progress and Im not in a good place about how I feel about her. I dont want to do something just as a reaction to my emotions. Any thoughts??