Originally Posted By: mlj
In fact that's the closest I've gotten to letting out my identity. It would not be a pretty sight if H ever found out I was talking about us here. Although everything I have said has been absolutely the truth.


This is slightly off-topic, but this is also one of the reasons the forum mods get antsy about people posting personal contact info. I haven't seen it happen, but apparently good people have been banned from these forums for posting email addresses, phone numbers, etc.

Even though we are all in the same boat in trying to save our marriages, there's a lot of risk in letting hurt, lonely people meet each other in person; we could easily end up being the ones in an EA or PA.

And that doesn't include the potential for being stalked or harassed. So just be careful.


Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."