Question

[awest1217]

I agree with you Lucky, but what is worse in my case is that H was completely all about S until about the time he turned 1. At that time, S started to talk and remember things, and I think this scared H because he was (and probably is) doing stuff on the internet that he is ashamed of so he started to withdrawal from S. Him leaving has been a surprise to everyone because he was so involved with S and always talked about how proud of S he was. For the first few months, S wanted H unless he was feeding. I have decided to let go of all expectations, and hopefully his desire will come back to be with S and be a good father again.

I also agree with I could do this forever, honestly I am ok with this limboland because I have finally let go of having expectations. Of course finances will be the deciding factor. I am not expecting to date any time soon so staying married is not a big deal to me if I don't have to deal with him I can wait until he is ready.

I am still holding out hope that things will change and have changed from the last time he left.