I never thought I would be here

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It seems that way unfortunately... this part is not as easy because of our 5 year old daughter. We have not told her what is going on. It will tear her world apart once she finds out. We have both been good parents to her, and I can say that my wife has been an excellent mother to her, no complaints in that department. With respect to that yes, with what my wife is choosing she is being selfish. Should my daughter suffer for this - No... Forcing my wife out of the house will likely hurt my daughter and that's where I am at. It's not for me but for my daughter...