Getting Un"Stuck" - Giving My Burden to God

[confusedinpa]

Stuck,

In my craziness, she said the couple of weeks before she moved out that I would find someone else and forget about her. Little did I know that back then that is what she had done (been cheating on me and was preparing to start a new life with this guy that dumped her 2 months later). I had asked her if that was what I wanted or was afraid of. I remember she wouldn't look me in the eye when she said she didn't know. I thought it was out of hurt back then. Now I see it was out of guilt

Ironically, about 6 weeks ago, I had started hanging out with someone that I had really clicked with. I felt guilty in the first week as it was pretty clear where it may lead. I had thought about telling my WAW as I was technically still married. I didn't. Anyway, 2 weeks ago, my friend and I are now ex-friends. It's a shame as we had clicked so well before we started to take it to the next level. I wished we had kept it as just friends since it was really what I needed, but we let the relationship grow too fast I guess.

Who knows what would have happened if I told my WAW. Don't know. Don't care. Personally it would have just fueled her fire to justify getting a D.

Best of luck to you brother. I wish you well.