What Coach
Originally Posted By: Coach
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So far its not really helping just because I dwell so much on my H and our problems. He tries to work on me but I always revert the session back to my marriage.


Hey, is this thing on??????


read up on co-dependence. mad

Cheers smile
Coach


What Coach said!

If your chaplain isn't able to keep you on track, you might look into seeing another IC as I suggested. If he can't keep you focused on you, then he's not helping.


Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."