So far its not really helping just because I dwell so much on my H and our problems. He tries to work on me but I always revert the session back to my marriage.
Hey, is this thing on??????
read up on co-dependence.
Cheers Coach
What Coach said!
If your chaplain isn't able to keep you on track, you might look into seeing another IC as I suggested. If he can't keep you focused on you, then he's not helping.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement