The "winks" I usually get are from women 20 years younger than me and live 4 or 5 states away.
I do the same thing Kerry does regarding emails, whether I am interested or not, I send back a reply. I figure if someone takes the time to write me an email then they deserve a response.
I am fortunate right now to be communicating with a very nice woman who lives not too far from me. I have made a note to myself to NOT text her asking if she is horny as I have learned rather recently from BBJ that this tends to turn women off
