Thanks everybody. I am going to a counselor. He is a chaplain and deals with individual and marital. So far its not really helping just because I dwell so much on my H and our problems. He tries to work on me but I always revert the session back to my marriage. I think I may always do this until I know that this marriage is over for sure. Only time will tell. And only patience will get me through time. Thanks again.


M: 31
H: 29
Married: 6 yrs
Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old





Separated: Sept. '09
Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09
Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10
Threatening to leave again: July,14