yes, it is. he really was being a good dad yesterday (little glimpses of the my old H... but i'm not going to let myself go there emotionally). So, yeah I think it is "The Right Thing to Do". I just have to not let it upset the sense of empowerment I am feeling now if I don't get a response or a minimal one. I am doing this cuz it is the right thing to do, not cuz i may or may not get any kind of response.