Ok good reminder. Yes... neutral is best at this point in the DBing process. This is not the time to challenge H's choices. Focus on me, GALing, etc. Is this also a good time to point out a positive? Yesterday S18 had something happen that was a challenge for him and he wasn't able to reach me due to meetings at work. He reached his Dad and H was really there for him. I haven't affirmed that (cuz H wasn't home last night to do any affirming) but I debated sending an email with a message of affirmation about being there for our son yesterday. What do you think?
