Originally Posted By: Coach
Read up on co-dependence.


Ding, ding, ding!

This is partly why I suggested going to an IC if you weren't already.

If you do have an IC but they don't seem to be helping? Look for another one. Not all ICs are the same, and you need to have a good relationship in order for the counseling to work.

If you want to learn a little more online, try starting here:

http://www.codependents.org/
http://www.allaboutlifechallenges.org/codependency.htm

Last edited by TrentC; 11/06/09 05:07 PM. Reason: Added URLs
Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."