I did the same as you, Mish. Put most of my time and attention to my kids, no attention to me, very little to my X. But I think when you have kids that need extra attention and then factor in your mom's health issues; you absolutely did your best. You've learned from this and I've learned from this that we have to pay more attention to spouses and ourselves, but realistically we have families where we do have to give extra attention to our kids or moms or whatever. Just the way it is.
