I guess in a sense of an open "marriage", I had put the boundaries up (about the dating)with the phone call I mentioned, but when I got home and we talked and cleared up exactly what was going on and that we are seperated - I am free to do whatever I want. That's where I'm at... I doubt I will be rushing into a serious relationship though - I am just going to have a good time
My story: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1867595#Post1867595