My H was gone for 2 years. It was awful, he was very mean and hateful. That was something I had NEVER seen in my H. He had the dead eyes, didn't care about anyone or anything but himself and the OW. What a waste. There were many times that I wante to throw in the towel but these wonderful people talked me down from the ledge.
And that is why I believe in MLC. My H in a very short period of time became in many different ways the complete opposite of who he was for the almost 20 years I have known him. No one can act that long!
All I can do at this point is live my life and pray for him.
