Wife went to see mediator. We all have dinner together and are getting the kids ready for bed. She clearly seems low and eventually says "I need a hug". I pass her my 3 year old.
She says lets just have an "A Frame" hug. I hum and haw a bit but agree. Nothing hard core. As well I notice she is touching me a couple of time nothing obvious but a pat on the back and a touch on the leg. Again I'm like WTF.
The kids go to bed and I head down to the garage to start packing. She keeps poking her head in and talking about nothing really. I respond but clearly stay focused on packing.
I see she is lonely and wants to hang out and talk. After all I am her "best friend" right.
I finsih packing a go to bed thats about it.
I am trying not to get to excited about these instances because of course she has not said she wants to try to work it out.
Her sister is coming into town this weekend so she probably won't feel as lonely but it also gives me an opportuity to be happy and outgoing in front of her.