Divorced and want to reconcile...

[RonD]

Mar,

Sounds like you're seeing some steady progress! I'm so glad to see that happening! With my ex, it started out that way, just little things. Hanging around and talking when she could have just left, conversations about the good times we had shared, etc. Eventually she started talking about a future with me in it and it's blossomed from there.

Right now, I have most of her stuff moved back home. I bought a new bed for us. We are (together) adopting my grandson (papers were signed last Monday) and are planning a future as "new" parents. We start cake decorating classes tomorrow; she's coming down tonight (we have a date) and she's staying the weekend with me and our son. Final move-home day is Thanksgiving weekend but I think she wants to move that up to as soon as possible.

I feel like a teenager falling in love all over again. She's been giving me lasting hugs and kisses when we meet and part. No intimacy beyond that and holding hands; we want to go slow and do it right but she has said she likes what I've been doing with myself and things look good.

This divorce won't be busted until we say our vows again but I think that's definitely in our future!

Keep doing what you're doing and don't lose hope or faith!