how to handle when your w says she hates you, wants you out of their lives, etc. I know so much of that is hurt, but how do you handle that immediate rage and upset?
Go to the DB store on-line here and order item #SP-U10x (pick your size S-XXL, only comes in green)) Also commonly known as the "spew raincoat."
You listen, validate if you can get a word in, and stay calm (don't match her emotions). It helps to know that anger is good, means she is still in the R.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
