I put up a post here with some sermons from my church. I'm not sure what your beliefs are, but you might find them interesting to listen to; especially "Love Lets It Go" and "Love Is Not Easily Angered".

Of course, there is always the serenity prayer; I'm looking at a copy of it right now, taped to my monitor.

Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."