Im debating on the same thing. My WAS and I have been separated for 2 mths. She said she was going to keep wearing her ring, she had it on the last time I saw her (2 weeks ago). We are getting a D though, she has been very clear on that. In the beginning, I wanted to wear my ring until we signed the divorce papers, but now I am thinking about taking it off. Im in the process of detaching from my W, and the ring is just another thing that connects me to her. She knows I am moving on, making plans, etc, but nothing has changed in our sitch. I thought about how she would react if I stopped wearing the ring, and Im not sure she would even care. She has so much anger and resentment, I dont think it would make a difference. But then again, Ive been against the D since day one and would do anything to try and make it work. Keeping the ring on would symbolize that I havent given up, does that make sense?


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M-11y

D talk-7/28/09
W Moved out-9/01/09
W wants D-9/22/09
W doesnt want D-12/1/09
W Moved in/I Moved out-12/21/09
W wants D-1/19/10
D Final-04/15/10