Write her a beautiful card. Spill your guts out. Release it all.

Then take that card and burn it.


When you go out. Dress up. Still celebrate your wedding. Enjoy the night. Maybe even do some dancing.


Also do not have any pints or anything else this weekend. Depression and booze do not mix.

And if you really need to. Have a second card. Just says happy ann and your full name. Leave it at that. But keep it tucked away in your briefcase or what ever you carry around for work.

That way if she gives you a card you can give her a card as well.

Nothing more. No R talk. Just be calm.


Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul.
unconditional love is awesome!