The main thing is that the boys enjoyed it. The only thing was my eldest could see her EA in his car.
She texted him to drive away, and then to park on the front to stop him being seen by the boys and annoying me. A bit of thoughtfulness from her. It means nothing.
don't they go to and stay overnight with their mother and he is there also?
do you have it in you to say, This contact between OM and the boys has got to stop! DO you realize the confusing message you are sending to them? I would prefer that they were affected in the least as we work through our marital problems.
