JTJ, this is great advice.

I was wondering if any of you wise men had some advice on how to handle when your w says she hates you, wants you out of their lives, etc. I know so much of that is hurt, but how do you handle that immediate rage and upset?


Me 35
W 37
M 10yrs
Seperated 5-23-09
Back in house 8-27-09
Looming seperation again 10-26
Kids: S8, D7