The only thing I am afraid of is making her more upset that she will want to push through the divorce process faster.
Don't worry about that, she can and will if she wants. Out of your control.
I would have a party at your new place, advertise it on FB. Be mysterious. Make sure you are working on her issues in the marriage so you can show her by your actions that you are growing and listening to her. When you see her you are "on." Look, smell, act, feel and project confidence and mojo. You can handle it.
Cheers Coach
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.