So what is the update for you? Did you ever have the swine flu?
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
Hey SO2...Nope no swine flu just the influenza A, which is great cuz now I can still get the swine...Not much to update other than things have been weird between us, not sure how to explain it...I have a feeling something big is going to happen soon just by the way she is acting, very cold and distant.
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."
Well at least you are feeling better. I am so on the fence about whether to give the H1N1 vac to baby or not. They should get the vacs in about 2 weeks and need to make decision by then.
You are handling this so well. Whatever happens you will be great.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
Ok so this past weekend was my weekend with the kids and wouldn't you know it S was sick to start(since wednesday)...He was better Saturday morning when D got sick so needless to say we couldn't do anything all weekend. Both are ok now so that's good, they didn't even test for H1N1 it's just assumed now.
W still acting weird...I haven't asked and she hasn't told me anything she is doing when I have the kids, which is more than ok with me...Well this past weekend it was like she was stressing she wasn't doing anything, kept telling me all the little things she was doing ect...Then yesterday I sent her an email asking about Halloween, she usually takes the kids out and I hand out candy...she emails back...I don't know what my plans for Halloween are yet. You are welcome to come over. My parents are going to come down from Lafayette. They are staying with my sister all week.
Ok so I'm not going to go over and hang with her parents while she goes out...Then last night on the phone she said I hope my email didn't come across as cold or anything, you know you are welcome to come over I'm not going anywhere so I'll be here all night...WHAT...
Why is she telling me this stuff all of a sudden?
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."
Sorry, I have no answer for you. Who knows why they shift like the wind? My guess is its the start of the holiday season and its probably in her mind. The reality of D is you will share holidays and that won't be much fun for her so she will try and keep things as normal as possible so the guilt doesn't set in. Exh wants to do Halloween with us too. Family time and then go on their merry way.
Maybe I am wrong..but its a thought anyway.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
Like So2, I don't know why they swing the way they do either, as you see in my thread, I'm at my own witts end over my X's sudden 'warming trend' again.
Maybe it is because of the holidays. I atleast got the first go-around for Thanksgiving this year, X gets x-mas eve and I have x-mas day, so it will be "somewhat normal" this year. Next year will be a crap shoot as it will all be reversed but we'll see what developes between now and then.
Try, as hard as I know it may be to not think too much into why she's acting as such and just let it roll.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11
I know I have to let it go it's just I'm a very analytical person that likes to figure everything out and when I can't it drives me nuts...
I figure it's one of four things:
1) The holidays 2) The mediation next week 3) Things aren't going as well with OM anymore 4) She just wanted to talk
One other funny thing about the talk we had the other night...She was supposed to be on call Friday of mediation but told me she switched because she's running in a half marathon on Sat and would still be on call...I think she thinks I forgot about the mediation since i just talked to the mediator and he never got my check...I wonder if she's hoping I don't show and would use that in court to say something about me being unreasonable...
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
