Glad you`ve been busy Mach. Hope you`re busy having fun too.
I`m doing great. Just really happy with so many things in my life right now. Don`t have any expectations re the marriage working or not. But just trusting God will look after me and mine.
Ploughing through November. Looking for as much fun as I can have. Have lots of good stuff lined up and finding the fun in every day.
Hoping I`ll stay this strong regardless of the outcome of our sitch!
Thanks for all your good work here Mach, with me and other posters. You`ve a good head and a generous heart.
No SR, just an example of how to turn my back on my H and start running!
I think this is one of the lessons of the accident;at a time when he should be at least compassionate he`s been down right cruel. and then tries to reel me on a week later with his "I`d hate if anything had happened to you" comment. And then anger again.
There`s only so much a gal can take!
And I know I will be ok no matter what. Yup, VH, I am feeling better thanks. The crash was a massive shock to my system. But it helped no end that the other party is ok and not pressing charges. Biggest thing is that they`re OK. I would have hated the pain of their being injured. It was bad enough!
I thank God everyday for the miracle of our emerging relatively unscathed.
Hope I get to be half as good as you two some day!
You have not turned your back on your H that I have seen.
You are simply doing exactly what you need to do for you.
The accident, may have been an eye opener for you…
That is ok…
You are seeing things that you need to see, in order to continue on your path…
Only if you feel like you have not done all that you can, only if you allow yourself to feel like you have failed somehow, does that make what you are doing now, running…
So think about that, see where you are, regroup a bit, and take another step…
Only you know which direction is the right one…
Smile sweetie ((((hugs)))))
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
I just don`t feel I`m DBing anymore Cat, that`s all. I feel like a fraud even being on this board as I don`t want to mislead newbies and have them think hey, I`m still hoping to solve all our M problems because I`m not.
Don`t want anyone else to lose hope either because there are situations here that have resulted in reconciliations.
And people who have moved on to having even better lives because they did do the work, they did heal themselves, they did look in the mirror and fess up to their reponsibilites in the breakdown of their relationship.
I`m still as sad as hell for our kids. But begining to believe that they`ll be ok too.
This bb is for support no matter where you are. This is a place where you can find hope for whatever your sitch is. Sorry honey, but you aren't so powerful as to "take" that from anyone.
Whatever happens and whatever you decide you are going to have an awesome life.
A well hidden secret is that once you really drop the rope, things sometimes change. Not always, but sometimes that's the trigger that gets things moving. In fact, things probably will move for you, too. We just don't know the direction. Either way, for you it will be Forward!
