I just don`t feel I`m DBing anymore Cat, that`s all. I feel like a fraud even being on this board as I don`t want to mislead newbies and have them think hey, I`m still hoping to solve all our M problems because I`m not.
Don`t want anyone else to lose hope either because there are situations here that have resulted in reconciliations.
And people who have moved on to having even better lives because they did do the work, they did heal themselves, they did look in the mirror and fess up to their reponsibilites in the breakdown of their relationship.
I`m still as sad as hell for our kids. But begining to believe that they`ll be ok too.
