thank you so much for your support..........we are still in the same house, different bedrooms. we are pleasant enough to each other, when we see each other...which is barely. when he is not traveling for work, he runs off to the gym in the morning and i think he is careful not to come home until he knows i have gone to work. there has been no touching or tenderness whatsoever and sometimes i really feel like just getting into bed with him or giving him a hug.....that would be a huge mistake, right? he just seems so very distant.....i know he believes that this is over and i am beginning to think it is a midlife crisis he just returned from a trip to africa with a bunch of musicians and for a few weeks he didn't have to deal with real life...sorry to be rambling, but i have not slept any advice? anyone here before and had it work out in the end?
