Interesting turn of events today... I texted H and told him I needed the tax returns from the last three years and his last 3 pay stubs. He called IMMEDIATELY. He was a little too paranoid that I might be filing. lol I ned the documents for something totally unrelated to this.
He later texted me about getting along, doing right by the kids, yadda yadda. He asked if he could call.
Out of curiousity, I said yes. Bad me! He talked for about 30 minutes about how he wished this and that had been different. I validated my butt off and said I understood. I finally told him I had to go, wished him well, and hung up.
I think if he calls, you talk. Try to avoid R talk, but if it happens, do just what you did. Listen, validate, and shut up.
I don't think you messed anything up!
I am down near Tucson! It's so much cooler (ok, using the word loosely) and less crowded than PHX! I do head up the road now and then for a ball game. And I watch for concerts up there. Since Tucson is a bit lacking in that department sometimes.
I'm way to embarassed to lay out details, just let me say we were on the phone. Oy! I'm kicking myself for letting myself get involved in THAT conversation.
I'm kicking myself for letting myself get involved in THAT conversation.