Update

OK, so I have been doing the 180, going dark, and GALing. It has only been a few days but I have noticed a more inquistiveness from my W. What are some of the signs or emotions I should be looking for to know if I am on the right track. I know she is looking at my Facebook page to see who I am communicating with and making friends with. The only thing I am afraid of is making her more upset that she will want to push through the divorce process faster. I have been polite and engaging but never initiate the conversation. Any advice would be great. Thanks.


HeartBroken Dad

Me: 42
Her:41
Son:11
Daughter:9
Married:1993
Bomb 9/09: "I am ready to move on."
Filed 10/21/09
Separate: 11-8-09