At the risk of being told I am being defensive I am just including a part of my post after Gucci's initial post. I feel the need to do this after just reading the last instalments especially when Gucci says, "They can hate the OW and yet can't see that their WS are no better than the OW. They need to start placing the blame where it should go...."
Originally Posted By: Cas05
I appreciate Gucci's words because they have given me plenty to think about..... I did say I was jealous of H spending time with ow. I didn't say anything else about her. I agree with Gucci, H is as bad as ow. I am wasting my life here. Bottom line is that H wasn't true in good times and in bad...
I hear the following advice and I know you will correct me if I am wrong!!
Remain civil and friendly with H but don't be a friend. Certainly don't initiate.
Detach from the whole situation
Get out and enjoy a life that is separate from H, including dating
