All sounds very good Rocked. Only thing I'd add if H comes up with stuff that you feel you had a part in, for me was yesterday cooking him breakie and I suddenly realised how lonely H must have felt getting up early on his own at 5.30am while the rest of us stayed snuggled in bed. Then validate those feelings, because yes you maybe could have handled it better. Starting the IC will certainly help you get things in a better perspective!
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Once lost but now found and happily married again!
