There's not much to tell right now.

She's still recovering from her surgery and should be back to work next week. I'm waiting until our schedule gets back to normal before I consider bringing up MC.

Emotionally, we're in the same place. She has a hard time with intimacy right now; the kissing thing is kinda hit-or-miss.

Like I said elsewhere; I have a pair of very good friends who help me when I need to vent emotionally. I'm having a hard time with patience, and they keep reminding me that even though it's been a little over two months for me, she's been at this for a lot longer. It's going to take time to rebuild that trust and intimacy.


Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."