Ok, one of the few people I have been speaking to about my sitch just took it upon themselves to call up H and say "what are you doing about SR? You have been dragging her along for too long and its about time you sorted this out once and for all" H said "We have been separated since March but I know I have to sort things out now"
I now think there is a very high chnace H will be coming home in a few hours, saying he is sure its all over and leaving for good this time.
I would really appreciate it someone who has been where I am right now could advise me on how best to minimise the damage that keeps mounting here. My basic plan is to shut up and listen, and validate. I have an appointment with a lawyer next monday to go through my rights.
Thanks so much to anyone who can help me out here.
