Getting Un"Stuck" - Giving My Burden to God

[ClingingToHope]

My W back in February said she was done, she felt nothing for me and that isn't fair to me and I should be able to go out and find someone who does.

Then she admitted it will hurt "if" I find someone who better fits my needs.

Five weeks ago, I complained about being in limboland. She said I didn't have to be, I'm free to find anyone. She's not wearing her ring.

Actually, I haven't either since I moved out.

I think she believes that she doesn't care and actually wants me to move on. But "if," which is applicable here because I tend to go back and forth on this, I find someone else I think her resolve will break a bit.

Perhaps it's wishful thinking but I've been told many times that women desire things they can't have or at least will have to work at getting back.

Key those is at least being able to make that decision. I told a friend in Chicago that I'm closing no doors. If someone else walks through that door I'm not totally closing myself off to the opportunity. I don't know if I'd actually pursue, especially since no D papers have been filed, but it's a moot point until that actually happens.