Four months ago I would have seen this as a "baby step." Now I recognize this as her continued efforts to move on and convert me over to a friend.
Yes, you must work on those negative thoughts. That negativity will inevitably affect how you interact with W, and for now, you want it to be as positive as possible. I know its tough, but you must recongize these small successes. You can't assume to know her motives - it will only eat away at you and defeat your purpose here.
Me 27; H 28; S 2 Togeth 9; M 4 Sep 11/14/08 EA OW1 Sep 08 EA OW2 Mar 09 EA OW3 Jun 10