I think some of us are sent here because we can save our marriages. Some of us are sent to heal ourselves. Some are here to give encouragement. No matter what each outcome, I think that we all have something to give, and something to receive. And we all can be "successful", even if it isn't in the way we thought when we came.
I've met some real true friends her, in the virtual world, and in the real world. Some tell me that I have helped them, and I know they have helped me.
I like to use the cliche about taking lemons and making lemonade. I think this place serves up some pretty tasty lemonade.