Just stopped in and was catching up on your thread. Wow!! What a change that I have been reading in you already. You even sound more confident to me in your posts. I am glad to hear that you finally made that tough choice to get out. I think that you are very brave to do what you are doing.
I agree with the people on here that have already posted about getting past the sick feeling and the pain. It will happen over time. Seems like time always goes slow when one is waiting for something to happen but after it happens then one looks back and wonders where the time went.
You seem like a wonderful person, bunny. You seem strong, bright, and an over all genuine person. Your H does not deserve the person that you are. You have so much to offer, whether it be to your family, friends, or a new R in the future.
The only advice that I have for you at this time is to reconnect with the person that YOU are, the person that I think you have been missing from yourself for a long time.
I hope that you stick with the one week time limit on telling him. I agree with all posters that have said that before me.
I will check back in with you soon. I will try not to stay away as long has I have this time. Hugs to you girl from Iowa
Me-31 Him-28 D1-9 D2-6 Married 5-06 Seperated 12-07 He filed 1-08 Reconciled 4-08 D dropped 7-08 Bomb dropped about H's activities outside the marriage 4-21-09 Filed for D 4-28-09 Trying to make a go of it 6-09
