You were right in protecting the business. Nothing you say or do will help your ex until he decides to save himself. We have to protect ourselves and children.
I too am watching a girl at work do the same thing to her husband. "She is not happy". 20 year marriage, there is another much younger man. I tell her that it is important to keep committments and god hates divorce. Nothing really registers though. She keeps self-destructing. It is like the path to hell.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
