Can I save my marriage?

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Well, he called me on my way out the door to get the vaccinations. But it had nothing to do with them. He knew my sis was over and he is a policeman and stopped a young woman this afternoon that "name-dropped" saying she knew my sis. So he called to see if she knew this woman at all. Well of course it was kind of a petty reason to call. Had I called him for this type of reason he would have lost it on me. He gets annoyed by those little calls that can be discussed at a later time. I wish he wouldn't have called from "private name" cause I didn't know who it was so I answered, but wish I hadn't. Again, he wanted to talk to me, and "voila!" I'm a little upset tonight as the boys had their shots and he hasn't even texted or called to ask how they did. Since my kids have been born I have never taken them for vaccinations alone. I hate needles and my H ALWAYS comes with to help me. Today is the first time I have ever taken them alone and he doesn't even care. Its frustrating how his parenthood went out the window since this happened. He used to be such a good father. Same thing happened tues. night when he took S3 to a hockey game and left in the second period because "supposedly" S3 was tired, but I later found out he went out. Who spends the night with their children on "their" night to be with them and then cuts in short to go out. Sorry bout the rant and rave. But I'm extremely annoyed with him today. The guys social life consisted of family 5 weeks ago with the occasional guys night and often "couples" nights, and now it consists of him going out every night...ugh.