Hi there: I am sorry you have had to come to this board, but there is a lot of good advice and good people here.
I want you to remember back to the reading in DR about affairs...they are like addictions. Many times the individual who has gone through the affair has withdrawals, and it sounds to me like your H is going through this.
Now, here is my question. Do you want to continue with your M?
If you do, I would suggest maybe dim, but not necessarily dark.
Also, can you elaborate a little more on the difficulties that your H had w/ his father?
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
