XH came to work yeserday
with sparkles on his face
seemed shaky and moving slow as if he was out partying night before
I asked him to leave work
told him our business cant take his inconsistancies, and I didntr want him working here anymore
any other job would have fired his a$$ a long time ago
he gave me the office keys and left
havent heard from him since
he is probably on a binge
I hope he is ok
so im a little nervous, but I have to save the business I have too much at stake
he is using prescription drugs and one never knows when he will be able to work
so thinhs will be chanfing again and xh may leave town
it reminded me of the part in the Jim Conway book when he said he just wanted to leave town and go south
I felt I have done everything to try to work this out with XH
he is impossible to work with because one day he is ok, next day he leaves work without doing important stuff and he looses accounts

on another note my freind is leaving her H
I have listened to her talk for many weeks
she is calling me for support
she sounds like many WAS here
but I can hear what she says b/c I am not emotionally involved
she is leaving Him no matter what
the D was already done in her mind at the moment she decided to go
there will be no working anything out in this one
she has OM..im not sure if she is MLC
but her M has been difficult for a while
so ya wonder is this real or does a person just want out?
dont know
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow