Out of curiosity, and so I don't do this with any other books either, what is the reason?
I thought you had a list of the Do's & Don'ts for the LBS. That is a big "don't". The WAW is not wanting to stay in a MR with you. She does not want to "work" on it......so that means she does not want to read any books about it or see any programs or listen to any tapes. Take my word for it......it is a huge turn-off to the woman who wants out of the M.
Suggesting she read an article, or you leaving a book by the bedside for her to see...is a heavy form of pursuing. Maybe you never thought of it like that, but she will see it as pressure and smothering.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
