Women apparently like men who are unavailable to them - I'm far too available and broadcast it at every available opportunity.
As in the great words of PDT......BINGO!
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actually though of explaining away the pic in the house to my W by text or on Saturday when she arrives but then again, that will make things look even worse so I have decided just to ignore it.
No, don't try to explain any of it.
I just don't know what else to do in order for you to see that pursuing a WAW is not the way to draw her back to you. You can't smother her or pressure her with your conversation or deeds. Being unavailable will cause your W to become more interested in you and what you are doing.....if you are a bit mysterous instead of blabbing everything. You seem to think that the more you are around her and talk to her, the better the chances of reconciling. That is what seems logical....but it is not what works with a WAW. A WAW wants what she can't have so easily. Stop being easy and available to her.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
