Well I "think" I may have done something good today. So I mentioned that I was going to get the kids their H1N1 vaccinations a week or two ago and that I needed him to help me as we have two young children and I couldn't do it by myself. Today is the clinic and he asked where it is so he could come but I though "no". I don't NEED him to help me. So I arranged for my sister to come help. I told him that and now he hasn't replied to my text about it. I kind of just thought that there are many things in life I may NEED help with but that doesn't mean I need H to help me with them. So I thought today would be a good start to try things on my own. But now he hasn't replied. Is he angry with me? I dunno. Hope I did the right thing.
Well you're just going to have to ask him when he comes around if he was annoyed by this and then ask him why and that you value his honesty.
You don't him to help me at first sounded like, I can do this by myself but then as i kept reading it was I don't need him I can find someone else to help me and maybe that is the vibe he got, easy to replace him and maybe he got turned off but then again it may not be that at all.
Seriously, no mind reading.
Use words, enunciate clearly, communicate - you can do it, I have faith in you.
