Cag, I don't know if you want hope right now or not. Hope can be a hard thing to keep around. If you do, I just read "I Do Again," which talks about a seemingly perfect marriage where the wife felt there was no emotional connection, found it with another man and then convinced herself she never loved her H. She blindsided him, pushed through the divorce.
They were divorced for seven years, but eventually got back together. It's a great story, but be warned there's a lot of things that just don't happen to most of us. But it did give me hope -- which made for a tough day yesterday when my head keeps telling me there really isn't any hope.
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